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Posted: Thu 23:45, 22 Aug 2013 Post subject: 10 Simple Things to Do to Improve Your Search for |
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10 Simple Things to Do to Improve Your Search for Love
Have you heard this quote by Anthony Robbins: "If you do what you've always done, you will get what you've always gotten." I love this quote.
Exactly what does it have to do with dating as well as your search for love? It might have everything to do with it…especially if you've been searching for a meaningful relationship for some time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Well, Mr. Robbins said hello: so long as you stay the same and carry on doing the same things…you will stay within the same situation. It hasn't worked so far or else you would not be reading this,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], right? Your Mr. I Love You hasn't yet appeared. And when he's, you probably didn't know him when he was sitting right in front of you.
I will reckon that you're doing pretty darn well without him. You're probably happy, and you've created a nice life on your own. Such as the you want spectacular?? That is what sometimes happens whenever you find a loving partner to talk about your already great life with. Expecting that special someone to exhibit as you repeatedly think, feel, and do the same thing over and over…is just not realistic.
Unfortunately, that's just not the actual way it is. Make it happen; and the only way it can be done is by learning and growing so you can alter your situation.
Meeting the lovely man who's going to become your best friend and adoring partner is about becoming the very best "you" that you could be. I spent almost 3 decades like a single I'm happy-without-a-man-but-gee-I'd-like-one Bobbi. I had been waiting for my Mr,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. I really like You to definitely appear. I believed it was a numbers game and that I was deserving; that certain day it would happen.
Then I got sick and tired and lastly accepted that it was me that had to create a new effort. I made some fundamental alterations in myself and my lifestyle, and now I'm the holy-crap-I'm-actually-married-to-my-dream-man Bobbi.
So here's my suggestions about how to locate the person who'll bring love and affection to your life: Change Something. Do something different today in your connection with men. It does not need to be drastic; slightly shift to determine how it feels,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], how it affects your everyday experience,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and how you are feeling about yourself.
Here are some suggestions. Don't pick just one. Do as many as you can, and make some of your personal.
1. Wear lipstick and shave your legs. (Yes, both!)
2. Ask a guy that will help you do something. Reach something on a high shelf, provide you with directions, recommend a good wine. So when he can help you - and he will should you ask - provide him a grin and a sincere "thank you."
3. Look for a singles' event where you live as well as on the internet and register. (Google it: singles cooking class, hike, book club,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], etc.)
4. Make a move nice for a man you simply met. Simply tell him you like his shoes or that he looks like an old boyfriend that you adored. Or, simply pay attention to him intently or give a sincere laugh at something he says. He'll show his delight and turn into puffed up for a week. And you will feel so good.
5. Look directly into your eyes of a man you consider attractive. He may be in the pub or in line at the bank. After which give a slight smile. For 3 full seconds.
6. Tell 3 people that you are searching for an incredible man that you experienced and get each to help you meet 2 new men. (Got the math? Big opportunities!)
7. Go buy a new bra that showcases your fabulous girls. While you're at it, feel free to peruse the lingerie section and fantasize a little. Again… smile.
8. Ask the guy behind you in line any insignificant question. I don't know what. Consider something. Try "Do you know what time they close today?"
9. Ask another stylish woman for any referral to her salon and make an appointment for a pedicure or new hairstyle.
10,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Ask two men you trust to tell you something about men they think all women should know.
One further thing: You have to do one more giant thing differently today: silence those old recordings in your mind which have been guiding your response and relationship to men. Guess what happens I'm referring to. "If a man doesn't much like me the way in which I look,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he's superficial and he's not for me personally anyway." "I don't have to ask a man that helped me to do anything. To express that I used to be a specialist in singing those tunes is an understatement. In older days,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I won the prize for sabotaging self-talk. You can, and you'll,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stop it; with practice. I did.
Big change starts with one small step. Make a move to get you to connect, learn something, feel pretty or feel powerful. You simply might learn it's not so scary, change your perception, and revel in newer and more effective and positive experiences.
Your experiences make your truth. Improve your experiences and you will change your truth. And hey, you might even have some fun and happy about yourself just for trying!
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